Wednesday 16 October 2013

Relationship Before Marriage

What do you all think about relationship before marriage? In my view, relationship before marriage for a couple should live together for further understanding between each other.

Living together is an easy way for a couple to "try out" the relationship before committing marriage. In this cruel reality of social, some of the people get marriage due to "money". Money could make a people to pretend themselves when living together with his/her partner in short term. But, a person "true colors" will be revealed slowly through time when living together in long term case. Living together could test a person whether he/she really love you or just love your money more than you. Therefore, you will not regret to marry with your partner after trying out your other side so that the amount of divorce cases could be decreased.


Apart from this,  living together before marriage could make a couple more understand his/her lifestyle and custom so that they can adapt each other lifestyle and custom. Take for instance, your other side has the habit of molar during sleeping so how can you accept and resolve this situation? Somebody due to his/her other side get such of the habit then decide divorce. So, you may know how is your partner's lifestyle clearly when living together. Thus, Adapting and accepting your partner's lifestyle before marriage is one of the way to get into a happy life.

Last but not least, living together before marriage could prevent conflict after getting married. A couple frequently disputes for some reason such as disagreement producing a lot of the negative impact which may influence their relationship easily after getting married if they didn't practice living together before marriage. Living together before marriage could let them know how to prevent conflict after getting married because they may experience same cases before and know how to handle this conflict. Thus, Living together before marriage for a couple is crucial to prevent a lot of unnecessary conflict which just affect their relationship.


In a nutshell, in my opinion relationship before marriage for a couple should live together for further understanding between each other in order to get into a happy life in their future.


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