Thursday 28 November 2013

Treating Your Peers And Friends Like Treating Your Family.

     In this real world society, that is less and less of your friends will treat you like treating his family. Normally, people will think for themselves first more than thinking for other people. Why? Most of them will just give the same answer which is "you haven't done your stuff and it will make your thing worst if you took care for other people first."

     We as UKM students are living in a peace and harmony place which is free from cruel and terrible real world. We are almost free from attacking by enemies, free from an intense competition for building your status and getting recognition from your peers, friends, families, or even society. That's why people who lives in “University of Society Malaysia(USM)" are such selfish. 

    But, to me, it is not only solution to stay in this real world. Another important thing is treating all like treating your family. How you treat people around you, people will treat you like your way. Sometimes, it will just make an opposite meaning to them. Treating them with paying your real heart. Take for example, an simple example of greeting like "Halo" and a simple of caring action like "Are you okay?" will convey the positive message to people around you. A simple action of caring will tell them that you are caring him. 

    Treating people in a good intention will getting a windfall. Yesterday, one of my Amin Senior was sick and he asked me to fetch him for the dinner by driving his car. I just help him without thinking over for a second because I know that a patient need people's help. His face turned pale when I saw him yesterday. I was worrying about him so that just bring him for dinner directly then proceed to 7-11 to buy some medicines for recovering. We were chatting while taking dinner at Al-Faris restaurant. He told me repeatedly that whatever you face you must learn to be strong and firm, do not say give up. If not you will lose a game. Straighten your shoulder as a first step to face with problem. Do the thing that you are reluctant to do, do thing best that you are willing to do. 

     What he said to me yesterday I have bear it in my mind. Even though it is like an advice, think it in different angle that is a good new to you that people are treating you with "Real Heart". So, please show to people around you that you are treating them like treating your families. At the same time, you will acquire some unexpected harvest even though it is just an advice. Think it positively, he actually is helping you to become a real man!

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