Treating Your Peers And Friends Like Treating Your Family.

     In this real world society, that is less and less of your friends will treat you like treating his family. Normally, people will think for themselves first more than thinking for other people. Why? Most of them will just give the same answer which is "you haven't done your stuff and it will make your thing worst if you took care for other people first."

     We as UKM students are living in a peace and harmony place which is free from cruel and terrible real world. We are almost free from attacking by enemies, free from an intense competition for building your status and getting recognition from your peers, friends, families, or even society. That's why people who lives in “University of Society Malaysia(USM)" are such selfish. 

    But, to me, it is not only solution to stay in this real world. Another important thing is treating all like treating your family. How you treat people around you, people will treat you like your way. Sometimes, it will just make an opposite meaning to them. Treating them with paying your real heart. Take for example, an simple example of greeting like "Halo" and a simple of caring action like "Are you okay?" will convey the positive message to people around you. A simple action of caring will tell them that you are caring him. 

    Treating people in a good intention will getting a windfall. Yesterday, one of my Amin Senior was sick and he asked me to fetch him for the dinner by driving his car. I just help him without thinking over for a second because I know that a patient need people's help. His face turned pale when I saw him yesterday. I was worrying about him so that just bring him for dinner directly then proceed to 7-11 to buy some medicines for recovering. We were chatting while taking dinner at Al-Faris restaurant. He told me repeatedly that whatever you face you must learn to be strong and firm, do not say give up. If not you will lose a game. Straighten your shoulder as a first step to face with problem. Do the thing that you are reluctant to do, do thing best that you are willing to do. 

     What he said to me yesterday I have bear it in my mind. Even though it is like an advice, think it in different angle that is a good new to you that people are treating you with "Real Heart". So, please show to people around you that you are treating them like treating your families. At the same time, you will acquire some unexpected harvest even though it is just an advice. Think it positively, he actually is helping you to become a real man!

Video shooting for Presentation

22/11/13

Yesterday, my group members and me hung out for APPLIKASI KOMPUTER video shooting at PTSL. We had done all thing for video shooting in one day. Thank you so much to my group members who pay cooperation in finishing our group tasks. WE DID WELL!!

We did many time of retake process but feel very funny when acting, HAHA~

We just spend about 4 hours for the whole process in shooting and video editing. WELL DONE!

We deserve it! Hope lecturer will not ban our video outcome. PRAY~~~

They are my group members.Jennifer(left), Syuhada, Rozaimah(right)

They look so fierce =.=''

 See!! Terrorists are hitting me, bully case!

Crying T.T

 NG part =.=''

Actually, they are very tender, haha~>.<~

Lab Test 1

20/11/13

3 days ago, I was sitting for Lab Test 1. During that day, that was something happen to me during opening the question through Microsoft Word. It makes me panic, feeling hopeless. But, my course mate who sat beside me was helping me in good intention by copying the question that she downloaded to me.

Would you feel touched when you are facing something with hopeless, but suddenly appearing a person who are willing to help you? Thank you so much to this person who helps me in good intention! In this real world, most of people are selfish which mean they just care for themselves to avoid "attacked" by other competitors.

I was shocked for a second when opening the question because it looks so hard to me in first impression. But, the question that lecturer tested us was the question that he ever taught us, just modify a bit only. I believe that if you guys really focus on the class and master every function for sure you will know how to answer this question.Teaching and learning process then lab test is good for us to confirm ourselves' ability to master.

Finally, I done my lab test 1 smoothly on 3 hours. Thank to our lecturer teaching us in using this basic but important thing!

Marriage

    Marriage is a socially or ritually recognized union or legal contract between spouses that establishes rights and obligations between them, between them and their children, and between them and their in-laws. In some cultures, marriage is recommended or compulsory before pursuing any sexual activity. When defined broadly, marriage is considered a cultural universal. A broad definition of marriage includes those that are monogamous, polygamous, same-sex and temporary.

     Civil marriage is a marriage without religious content carried out by a government institution in accordance with marriage laws of the jurisdiction, and recognised as creating the rights and obligations intrinsic to matrimony.

   Same-sex marriage (also known as gay marriage) is marriage between two persons of the same biological sex and/or gender identity recognition by country's legal. The first laws in modern times enabling same-sex marriage were enacted during the first decade of the 21st century. As of 19 August 2013, fifteen countries (Argentina, Belgium, Brazil, Canada, Denmark, France, Iceland, Netherlands, New Zealand, Norway, Portugal, Spain, South Africa, Sweden, Uruguay) and several sub-national jurisdictions (parts of Mexico and the United States) allow same-sex couples to marry. A law has been passed by the United Kingdom, effective in England and Wales, which is expected to be fully in force in 2014.

     Arranged marriage is a type of marital union where the bride and groom are selected by a third party rather than by each other. It was the norm worldwide until the 18th century. In modern times, arranged marriage has continued in royal, aristocratic families and ethnic minority groups in developed countries; elsewhere, arranged marriage is common in South Asia, Africa, the Middle East, Latin America, Southeast Asia and parts of East Asia.

    
On my view, there are several reasons to a couple for divorce as the explanation below:

1. Marrying too young
   - Some of young people marry for achieve their sexual need, either marry with immature mentality. Some of the young people think that marry is an easy way to get lifelong for each other without considering about what problem may be emerged in their future journey.
2. Too much arguing
   -  Sometime, Argument is a good way for a couple to listen their different thinking. In contradictory, too much argue between husband and wife may just lead to negative effect that they couldn't accept mind thinking each other. The worst, divorce may happen.
3.  Unrealistic Expectation
   - Sometime, either husband or wife may expect highly for his/her partner which something actually they wouldn't do so. Feeling disappointed and desperate lead to the final result which is divorce.

"Marriage has become a negative term in this culture and society," wrote Elisha McGonagle.  "We no longer look at marriage with anticipation, but with fear. Fear drives so many people in this country. People are scared that if they get married then there is the possibility of getting divorced.

Is it marriage guarantee a lifelong relationship?
"No, marriage does not guarantee a lifelong relationship, but neither does any relationship ... And only marriage was designed to be a lifelong relationship. The only reason it is not is because we have made it that way. We too often look for any easy way out. If we feel unhappy, then just leave. If you feel unfulfilled, then leave. If your husband makes you mad, you can just leave."

Participating "Semenyih Xin Ming Primary School Carnival"

    I was participating the "Semenyih Xin Ming Primary School Carnival" represented PT UKM as AJK of tehnical group in aiding and facilitating the flow of this carnival on 17th November 2013. Wake up at 5.30a.m. and proceed to Semenyih around 6.00a.m. I felt excited because this is my first time represented PT UKM to participate the carnival.

    After reached there, I was ordered to set the stage for the open ceremony.Carry the piano to the stage and find the extension wire. Then, take our breakfast(Nasi Lemak) to recharge our energy.

     The most interesting thing during that day is we are represented PT UKM to monitor designated stall to make sure that all transactions are processed with coupon and prevent the cash transaction occur as well as prevent the fraud during the transaction. Sometime, business man will intentionally to rise the price which is unethical action for earning more of the revenue in this carnival. That day, one of the stall was discovered that the business man rise the price without any announcement to the committee and at the same time the stall is not monitored by anyone because one of our AJK absent and didn't inform to his EXCO. That's why we are such important to promise that the smoothness of the flow. At 9.00a.m, the hall was fulled with the audience and customer. Beside that, I were helping the business man to sell their foods and beverages by promoting their delicious foods and beverages.

     About 2.30p.m, business man sold out their foods and beverages. We were ordered to count the amount of the coupons that they had collected to determine how many revenue should they earn in this carnival. Some part of the money that business man had earned will be donated to the school for the renovation and establishment of the basic equipment purpose. After the carnival ended, we were aiding to fix up and set back the thing to the original place.

     About 5.30p.m., we were returning to UKM. An unforgettable experience has bear in my mind. It represents that I am growing up now.

Here are the guys from FEP, Haha~

This is my Amin friends ^.^

Honesty in Relationship

Honesty can be defined as truthfulness, sincerity, frankness or freedom from deceit or fraud. Honesty are probably one of the key in a successful relationship. Trying to maintain these can be an everlasting battle, with both you and your partner needing to work hard to maintain them on both sides. There are some essential guidelines that any person or couple can follow to keep up the levels of trust and honesty required for both people in a relationship to be happy and sure they want to carry on in that relationship. 

Promoting trust is essential in building a strong, healthy relationship between two people. Love may have been the key to starting the bond, but being trustworthy, and completely trusting your partner will be one of the things that make it last. If you want your partner to trust you, you must display honesty and integrity from the start and maintain it throughout the course of the relationship.

So, here are the some ways what we should do being honesty in maintaining a good relationship among your partner, family, even your friends:

1. Avoiding in keeping secret which may affect the relationship

Keeping secret is a good attitude as respecting each other in a circle of buddies. In home, we should to be sincere to our family members in bonding the family's unity. However, keeping family's secret is vital to build up and maintain reputation of family in contradictory. Apart from this, how about if we keep small secret from our partners? Like lying, keeping small secrets gets you in the habit of hiding things from your partner and it is an easy lead in to lies on a larger scale.  Somehow this situation may lead to a breaking down of the trust in that relationship. Eventually, breaking up may happen if keeping the secret.

2.Avoiding suspicious minds

There is such a thing as being too suspicious, which can lead to your partner, friends or family rallying against your position and actually doing the thing you suspect of them.It is a fine line between watching out for signs of lying, and completely mistrusting everything someone does, to the point at which you are virtually hunting for some incriminating evidence. If someone thinks his partner isn’t going to believe him no matter what he says or does, he may start thinking, “I might just as well be having an affair, as she suspects me of it anyway”. That might seem far-fetched, but suspicion can quite easily develop into a weapon that breaks up a relationship.

3.Revealing your past

How honest and open should you be about your past? I would say completely, but only in small stages. Be careful not to compare anyone from the past to your present partner. Instead wean these into conversation and your new partner’s knowledge slowly but surely, and at the appropriate time. No one wants to know that an ex did something better than he does, so that type of honesty, which can only hurt someone, should be avoided.  In a circle of buddies, revealing your past could build up the trust because people will feel that you are sincere to them. 

In my conclusion, being honesty is a personal virtues. Being honesty is the only way to make people trusts on you. How you treat people around you, people around you will treat you like the way you are.

What a bad day

An unfortunate day was happened last night. My SanDisk Ultra 32GB SD card was broken! Goods price at RM100++. But this is not a point, the worst thing is all of my photo and video was disappeared. I didn't make a back up for myself, so sad! Most of my histories were recorded inside this memory card, it could make me recall back all of the interested things that I had experienced before. What can you imagine that a 32GB memory card inside? It fulls of the Joys and sorrows.

Because of this incident make me feel the world in "black and white".

The memories from a child, then studied at primary school, secondary school, Form 6....I am losing my memory.

I am going crazy now. Trying hard to find back all the photos and videos! What a emotional day! 

Teamwork Spirit

Teamwork spirit can be defined as the spirit of a group that makes the members want the group to succeed. For me, teamwork spirit is vital because every results of a discussion are formed by a group even though we will face the problem like conflict and quarrel during the discussion. Similarly, As a member of basketball team, every members are not allowed to think for himself or herself during training or competition but think for a team.

The inspiration of this topic sudden "pop-up" from me because I found that most of people always think for themselves included me but depend on the situation I have faced. As a member of a basketball team, we have responsibilities to achieve the highest reward for our team even though one of other side team will be a loser. A member's responsibilities are always to think for other, active and enjoying during training or competition, keeping to think positively for driving a positive trend even if we will be a loser for this game. If a basketball team didn't possess with "teamwork", the worst result will come out. Not only lose a game, the worst thing is we will lose a team due to the conflict.

In my opinion, everyone should have at least a partner in helping us to achieve goals. Regardless of what problem we face, We will never give up easily as long as we still have a team willing to help and guide us. Thus, teamwork spirit should be practiced for everyone in solving the problem or accomplishing something.